Sunday, February 15, 2009

Baby Toys

I always assumed that the sole purpose of baby toys was simply to keep little ones entertained and amused. Now I realize they do much more and are instrumental in early childhood development. They help babies learn concepts and develop their fine & gross motor skills. Fine motor skills are small movements— such as grabbing something with your thumb and forefinger — that use the small muscles of the fingers, toes, wrists, lips, and tongue. Gross motor skills are the bigger movements — such as running and jumping — that use the large muscles in the arms, legs, torso, and feet.

It's common for preemies to have developmental delays so you'd think I'd be all over it. But I'm ashamed to say that Carl and I have both been pretty lazy parents and are quick to put him in his swing or bouncer rather than work with him. The only thing I've really focused on is making sure he gets enough tummy time. And even though I explained it to Carl back in December after Justin's first developmental assessment he's just now beginning to understand the importance of tummy time. He actually thought it was something I made up and didn't believe it until one of the NICU nurses mentioned it.

Justin's next developmental assessment is March 12th and I'm expecting to be told that there is some delay, even for his adjusted age (6 months). I'm hoping we'll be referred to early Early Intervention (EI) and he'll start receiving some type of therapy. But in the meantime I'm working with him daily on rolling, sitting up, and grasping/reaching for toys. And the links I just bought are a big hit as they're easier for him to hold onto.


6 comments:

  1. Robbie automatically qualified for EI just based on his size and GA at birth. He wasn't behind at all when he was evaluated so they left it up to me if I wanted them to come.
    I said ABSOLUTELY! I'm so glad I did because by the time all the paperwork was done and the appointments started, he was having eating trouble. So they started on that.
    Now he's having some minor gross motor trouble (his fine motor is actually advanced. Go figure!) so we're on top of it before it gets really behind.

    Oh.. and my husband thought I was making crap up, too. When will they learn!?

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  2. Look at him holding that toy! And you were just telling me that he isnt really grabbing holding toys yet. Sometimes it just depends on the type of toy. I had to do the same with Lil D when he was first grabbing/holding things. Somethings he couldnt do..I tried toy after toy everyday until i found THE ONE. Once he learned off that toy he progressively started going to larger toys and grabbing/holding more.

    So keep up the good work with him and the toys. Looks like you found THE ONE that he will hold. He will get better and better everyday.

    Its so funny...cause as much as we want them to teahch them and learn new things everyday. As parents..we are also learning everyday. :-)

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  3. DUDE!!! WHEN WERE YOU GONNA MENTION THAT JUSTIN WAS OFF OXYGEN??!?!?!

    I mean - this post is great. Yes - toys are a big deal. It's good that you're starting to get more serious about working with him..

    BUT I'M SO HAPPY THAT HE ISN'T ON OXYGEN!!!

    Yeah - there is a lot of excitement in my comment. lol

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  4. Sometimes you just have to find the toy he likes, it's not necessarily that he can't but rather he doesn't like the toy. All kids are different, seems he likes the one he has, once he figures out what he can do he'll be grabbing everything. :-)

    I thought I just didn't see the oxygen. He's off, that's so GREAT!!!!

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  5. Okay, I read this post yesterday and didn't notive the oxygen was gone. I'm with Amber, "dude, when were you going to mention that?!?!?!"

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  6. Please don't "beat up" on yourselves for not working with Justin as far as toys are concerned. You were preoccupied with trying to keep him alive. Now that he is "out of the woods", you can move on to interacting with Justin with toys.

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